Soul winning tips

Soul winning tips

I am no expert by any means, but I offer some tips I have learned through the years as I knocked on doors all over this city.  Some are merely common sense, some are courtesy, but all can be effective.  I know no scripture with which to support many of them, but let that not hinder the use of them in the business of winning souls to Christ.

1.  Always go by two’s.
    The old adage “Two is company, and three is a crowd” is true in door-to-door soul winning.  Three people standing on a porch can be intimidating, while two is appropriately acceptable.

2.  Decide who is gong to do the talking.
    It is better that one person do the talking while the other prays or “runs interference” so that the Gospel is not hindered by crying babies, unruly dogs, etc.
    It is confusing to the prospect to talk to two different people and catch all that is said.

3.  Carry breath mints or spray.
    Very important.  If your breath offends them, they will write you off quickly, and the chance to win them is lost.  Carry them, and use them.

4.  Always be courteous.
    You may not like their attitude or appearance, but always treat them with a certain amount of dignity.  If they are improperly dressed leave a tract, and leave quickly, there are more prospects ahead.  If they are just sitting down to supper, quickly leave a tract, and come back another time; people don’t like cold dinner because they are listening to a stranger.

5.  Knock in a friendly manner.
    People get angry when you sound as if you are going to knock the door down.   If needed, knock on the inside door so that they can hear, and the door does not rattle.

6.  Don’t skip a house if it looks as if they are not home.
    Tracts can be left on gates to fences, or some screen door frames.

7.  Beware of dogs!
    If the yard is fenced, look for signs of dogs around the perimeter of the yard.  Shaking the fence will always have them running to the gate. 
    Make friends with dog slowly, but use your own discretion before entering the yard.

These are just the preliminaries, but they are important to remember and practice. 

Abilities

1. Availability
    Probably the most important ability the Christian could have is availability.   Until we make our selves available, the Lord cannot use us, or at least will not. 
    Availability means that we are willing to go wherever He commands; to do whatever He wishes; and to be whatever we are expected to be.  We need to give ourselves to the Lord, and to His service, whatever level of service that may be. 

    Many emphasize “Lordship salvation” as if that were the supreme factor in our serving the Lord, and obtaining His favor, (Andrew Murray for one), but the Bible says that it all begins with Faith:

“But without faith it is impossible to please him:”  (Heb. 11:6 in part)

Without faith, we have no real beginning in the Lord.  So, we begin our new life with faith; our next step then would be baptism.  

    Baptism is the first act of obedience in the service of our Lord.  If we “fudge” on baptism, often we go no further in the growth process, nor in the service of the Lord.   This, of course, always follows salvation by faith, and is never a part of it, or precedes it. 

    I suppose then we have what is normally referred to as “Holy living”  It is not only expedient, but necessary to obtain the favor of our God.  Obedience stands paramount to nearly every other aspect of the Christian life beyond this point.   This is where the confusion of Lordship salvation comes into play; many precede the faith with the obedience and get the doctrines backwards.  Repentance is often seen as a prerequisite to salvation, although they both come at the same instant that we accept Christ as Savior.  Repentance is our part, while salvation is God’s part.  All this aside, availability is the key to being used of God. 


2. Dependability
    In preparation for service dependability is probably at the top of the list.  If we are not dependable, what good does it do us to be available?   We are like a foot out of joint, or a broken tooth (Prov. 25:19)   We can become a “sore spot” in the work of the Lord if we are not dependable. 
    The word “faithful” is probably the closest word in the Bible to being dependable.  Since we do not find “dependable” in the Bible, we must use the word Faithful, though it is used in many ways as truth; honesty; integrity; etc.  It is quite expedient then that we realize the value of dependability.  A man that we can depend on is worth mountains of gold to the ministry.  No preacher, no man alone can do the work of stewardship completely, not without interacting with others--with people they can depend on.   “Assistants” are for that purpose, and they must be dependable to be of usefulness.   Dependability is indeed an important commodity in the work of the Lord, in fact, it too is a necessity. 


3.  Responsibility
    This three-fold outline is useless if one of the three is left out.  Availability and dependability are no good without responsibility.   A man who is responsible will get things done; he will meet any challenge head on, and seek the guidance of the Lord in the matter.  He will act for the betterment of the Lord and His church, and for the good of man.  Our responsibility lies in the doing of all three of these, the Lords will; the churches growth (promotion of the Gospel), and the betterment of man.  Improving on what has already been established is the responsibility given to all of us.  We are to build on the foundation that Christ has laid, and seek His guidance as we go; this takes durability on mans part. 

The Internet

I had a very scary thought early this morning:
What one thing ties the world together today?  The internet.

Who controls the internet?  Many say that no one person or body can control it, but what if one person does?  What if one man could take control of the internet, and have all that is in it at his discretion? He would have the power of complete censorship; he would literally come into nearly every home in America, and be able to obtain valuable information about any one of us; private, personal, and vital information that could ruin us, or promote us, whichever he desired!  Think of the power he would have in the mere knowledge of our business activities, our beliefs, our very heart and souls! 

    Perhaps you are saying “It will never happen, no one person can control the internet”, but a few years ago men thought that something like the internet itself would be an impossibility!  Who would have thought that one man would discover something so widespread and so prominent as the internet?  Yet one man did, and look at it now!  Some could hardly get along a few days without it!

    Think about it: if the internet became under the control of Muslims, all Christian sites could be shut down.  (Already it is possible to shut down certain sites, as many of us have seen).  If it came under the control of any man or group, we would be at their mercy for the most part, at least under their watchful eye.  “Big Brother“ is watching already to some extent; if you do not believe that, try posting a lot of illegal stuff and see what happens to you!   I have no qualms with the law regulating the internet, it needs to be checked, but, what if the ant-Christ had control of such a powerful tool?   We put too much vital information on the net.   

    My point is that we need to wean ourselves from the net, and spend less time revealing our personal lives through even “friendly” sites; others who are enemies of good and righteousness also have access to these sites.  Let us hope that it is not too late already.  Does this sound rather fanatical to you?  Does it sound so far-fetched that you laugh at the thought of it?  If so, you may be the net’s greatest victim.  The possibility has already been proven; many have hacked into computers of banks, financial institutions, and even stole identities of past veterans that served our country, and all through the internet!  That which we all thought to be good can turn out to be very evil.  Already it has been reported that perverts are watching, and gathering information about our children and they are able to discern where we live, and how many are in the family, etc., because we have surrendered that information on the net for all to see.  One cannot protect themselves enough, there is always someone that can break through passwords, and firewalls, and phishing nets, and filters, etc., and steal our identities. 




Please be careful how you use the internet.

Body, Soul, and Spirit

Man is a triune creation, composed of a spirit, a mind, and a body.   Below we have six ways that these can be arranged, and the probable characteristics of each. 


THE FIRST: body, mind, spirit.
The body controls the mind, and the mind controls the spirit.
    This is the most dangerous of the six stages, or conditions of man.  These believe that “anything goes”; self is god, sensuality dominates their life.  Self is always first and foremost in their walk; this is self worship at it’s worst, humanism at its best.
    It is representative of agnosticism, atheism, reprobates, etc.  man in his worst state.  This is the state of most men and women today.


THE SECOND: mind, body, spirit.
The mind rules the body, which in turn rules the spirit.
    This state is a little better, but still is not in proper order because the spirit is last.  This person may be a “man of the world” wise in it’s ways, and little interest in spiritual things whatsoever.  He may be successful, aggressive in business, responsible and “respectable” in society, a “good citizen”.  He pays his debts, has a good standing in the community, but he is lost!   


THE THIRD:     mind, spirit, body.
The mind rules the spirit, which rules the body.
    This one sounds good, but it falls short of what we should be.   This is the “Pharisee” in us; “religious”, but probably unsaved, (the spirit is controlling the body though, and that is good).  This person will not accept many of the biblical principles by faith, but needs to figure it out first; his attitude is “prove it, and I’ll believe it”.   This type has a false god, not made with hands, but made in his mind.  He has a distorted view of God and godliness.  
    This category will include liberals, cultists, heretics even, leagalists, and all sorts of perversions.  They invade the “theological seminaries (or cemeteries!), deceiving young people by the hoards.  They are more concerned with figuring God out than serving Him.


THE FOURTH: body, spirit, mind.
This individual has the body first, then the spirit, and then the mind.
    Here is a  “believer” the spirit controls his mind, but unfortunately his body controls his spirit.  He is probably saved, but his “religion” is based on feeling instead of faith.  He will usually be drawn to the charismatic movement.  His music will be contemporary, sensual, (rock) with perhaps Christian words; she will wear excessive make-up, drawing attention to her face, and he will let his hair grow out.  Their clothes will no doubt be revealing, since the body is first in their structure.  He, or she may be sincere, but the flesh has much too much control; “fads” and popularity are big on their agenda, and will dictate their standards.


THE FIFTH: Spirit; body; mind.
The spirit is first, so this person in undoubtedly saved, but the body controls the mind, which makes their system helter-skelter. 
    That is the sad part; this Christian is sincere, but unproductive because he or she has not disciplined the body.  They may be lazy, fearful, or sick in the faith, but the spirit does not rule the body.  He/she may get good grades in school, will probably be in deep debt because they have no schedule or budgeting.  These are usually dominated by laziness, procrastination, and those are probably their worst problems, but their life is not in the proper order of godliness. 


THE SIXTH; spirit, mind, and body.
This last one is the very best of all; the only true way, the way of righteousness.
    This is a Christian that has the victory over the temptations of the mind and the lusts of the flesh.  The spirit rules; it is dominate in their make up, and they walk with their God.  This puts their priorities in order, with Christ first, and the mind under His control, and the body subject to both spirit and mind. 
    This man or woman will no doubt be concerned for the lost, a “soul winner” and possibly a “prayer warrior”.  They may be “apt to teach”, putting others first, and their own needs behind them.  He or she will read their Bible regularly, and study the blessed Word and stand against the unruly evil of the world and the tongue.  They will take a stand against sin in any form or “color”.  The are the true “fundamentalists” of our day, and most likely they will be Baptist!

Ecumenicalism

We used to hear a lot of good preaching about ecumenicalism, but as of late, I have not heard any--at least not in this area. What happened to the Baptist doctrine of separation? Today it seems that the popular thing to do is to unite in "brotherly love" and put away our "foolish" doctrines for the sake of getting along. Does anyone stand on his/her conviction any more? We need to get back to the traditional ("fundamental") Baptist doctrines.

Keep in mind that some man came up with the 5 or 6 "fundamentals of the faith" and that has been part of the problem. Anything basic to our Baptist heritage is a fundamental of the Baptist doctrine. We don't see anything else as all that important now because we have accepted a mans teaching that there are only a few "fundamentals" of the faith.

Another "wooden nickel" we have accepted is that "convictions are only those things you would die for". Who said so? I have some convictions that you might call preference, even though they are scripturally based; and most likely you have some that I would call personal preference too! If our convictions (beliefs) are important, and scripturally based, they are convictions! This teaching, that we only have a very few convictions, and the rest are preferences, is destroying our Baptist heritage as well, making everything else trivial and subjecting it to being cast aside as non-essential in our Christian walk. What damage we have done to the faith.

Again I ask, what happened to ecclesiastical separation? Where has marital separation gone? What about social separation? Are we not losing these doctrines that made men great in the past? Sometimes our separation needs to be among our own ranks, sadly. Let's get back to the Bible--to "Baptist", back to separation.

Haircuts for men; long pants on women; the KJB, etc. are dying doctrines nowadays, where have they gone?   Why do we want to mimic the world in action, dress, and thought?  This world has nothing for us, it is based on fleshly ideas and humanistic doctrines.  Our Bible says “Come out from among them, and be ye separate” (2 Cor. 6:17)

Clothing

Genesis 3

“And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.” (2:25)

 “And he said, I heard thy voice in the garden, and I was afraid, because I was naked; and I hid myself.” (3:10)

    In this chapter, and in the last verse of the previous chapter, we see the main reason for clothing.  Did you ever wonder why you wear what you wear?   Clothing is basically to cover our shame (nakedness).   In verse 7 of chapter 3, we see that they sewed fig leaves together to cover themselves, because they were naked.  They did not know what it meant to be naked before this, and had no shame because of their innocence.   Even after the Lord confronted them, they needed to cover their shame, and He provided the skin of the animal, the innocent one, to cover their shame.  We see in this a picture of the sacrifice of Christ on Calvary.  He too died to cover our shame, and in Him we are made whole again, and obtain eternal life.   The point I would like to make is that our clothing need not be ostentatious, but simple, as long as it covers us.  Anything more than covering our nakedness is pride.  Do we need to be adorned with the nicest apparel?  Do we need diamond-studded outfits to cover our shame?  Of course not.  Something much more simple will do.  Of course women need to dress modestly, as in Titus 2:9, but even this seems to be speaking of avoiding the showy, attention drawing, and pride building clothing that we often like to wear.  It is linked to “gold or pearls, or costly array”, and speaks of dressing “humbly” as much as decently.   To “feel good about ourselves” is the worlds’ desire, and ought not to be our desire when it comes to dressing.  This thinking is based on pride, which is the bane of all good men and women in every generation.   Back to our verses: the shame did not come until the knowledge came.  They were not ashamed until after “their eyes were opened” and they became “as gods, knowing good and evil” (3:5). 

     It is the knowledge then that brought the fear.  The knowledge of what?  Of good and evil: of the ability to discern between the two.   This remains the crux of the matter.  When we seek out the flashy, sexy, or showy type apparel, we are merely feeding our ego.  This may be hard to swallow, but it is true, nonetheless.  We like to offer excuses at to why we dress the way we do, we even try to make it “spiritual”, but the bottom line is pride.  For our own satisfaction we want to “look nice”, when we ought to be concerned with covering ourselves.  I must be fair, and say that we dress for warmth too, but that is not all the time, and even that should fit the guidelines of “modesty” and humility.  Did not our Savior dress “humbly”  He deserved spectacular a robe of purple, but wore a simple robe of white.   Folks, be sure your pride shows in the way you dress, and in your appearance in this world; yes, others can see it, even if you will not.  It’s for men and women alike.

(Note:  The word “modest” in Titus 2:9 means both in a moral aspect, and in a humble aspect.  Here is the Dictionary definition of “modest: “

1. Properly, restrained by a sense of propriety; hence, not forward or bold; not presumptuous or arrogant; not boastful; as a modest youth; a modest man.

2. Not bold or forward; as a modest maid. The word may be thus used without reference to chastity.

3. Not loose; not lewd.

Abstain

“Abstain from all appearance of evil.” (1Th 5:22)

    This verse has been a mystery for me for many years.  With our weak and worldly minds, we must interpret it as we see it.  One wonders if the Lord doesn’t see evil differently than we do!  I am sure He does.  We can only know evil if, and when, we have the mind of Christ.  “Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus:”  (Phil. 2:5)

    We abstain from the very grossest of evils, the fornications; the murders; the adulterous affairs, homosexuality, and such, but I wonder if the word “evil” here is much more inclusive than we usually credit it to be?  It really matters not what we think, but what the Lord thinks of evil, and how we interpret that!   Each of us will determine things to be evil that others would not necessarily agree with; we would continue in our daily walk according to our interpretation, and take pride in the fact that we are abstaining from evil.  This must be abomination to the Lord, just as much as it is seemingly glory unto us.  The only way we can even have an inkling of evil is by diligent study of the Word of God, and prayerful persistence in seeking the Lord. 
    “There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.” (Prov. 14:12)   This verse says, basically, the same thing--we do not necessarily know what is evil and what is not.   If it “seems” right, we feel we are okay with it.  It would behoove us to question every act, and every thought we have, and compare it to the Word of God.   Some may wonder, in way of excuse I suppose, what about things that are not obvious in the Word of God, like gambling, or smoking, movies, (even some include dancing and/or card playing) etc.?   To some, these things “seem” to be justified by their own minds, and yet, we must abstain, but why?  Because it is not conducive to a good testimony for one thing.   Our testimony is what others see us as, it is important when we seek to win others to Christ.  Another reason is that these things promote worldly activity, and induce thoughts and temptations to weaker brothers or sisters in the Lord who are greatly under the influence of such things.  Is that not evil in itself?  I could list others, but I am afraid that it may take an entire page to fill the meaning of “evil” in the eyes of the Lord.  Evil can be defined by that which is harmful--either to self or to others; any act or thought or suggestion that is hurtful or spiteful is evil, as well as the “common” evils that we are all aware of, and sometimes share.  Oh thank God for His wonderful grace, and the mercy He bestows on us daily, especially in this area.